[There is in fact a complete lack of judgement, just listening.]

I guess that makes sense. Between being the isolated kid and whatever was going on that made you all powerful and cagey, physical intimacy being a lot... Well yeah.

I can't say I know what you're feeling, physicality is all I've really known my whole life. But I think I can see how it would be a lot.

Sometimes though, being a lot is kind of the point. Being overwhelmed is part of what makes sex appealing to me, because then you don't have to think. And boy do you seem like a guy who could do without thinking for a while.

But that's just from my perspective. I really don't know if that would make you feel better or worse.